what is there to do when you are left wondering and considering something?
especially when you aren't entirely sure what to say...
but you respond best you can...
and still have no idea how it is you should have responded...but you responded with what you thought was the best you could do....
and you sometimes wonder if you weren't a grown up...would you have to wonder?
would any of the stuff matter?
or...were you the best grownup you could be in your response...
i like to think when we were kids it was much easier...hurts were easily forgotten...the sky was always blue (or purple or pink or...whatever color you picked for your sky back then...)
and life was always good...
and then we grow up...
and it's not perfect...
words leave lasting hurt...
and we have to engage our brains to respond...
our brains are often way too logical...but then in all the logical thinking are you forgetting that you were hurt....
but then again i think back to being a kid...and were hurts really forgotten so easily?
and then we end up back where we began...with some logic applied
hurt hurts
and no matter if we are a kid...or a grown up....
hurtful words and actions
still hurt
but as a grown up...i know
sometimes we have to figure out why it hurts...
and
with caution...
we have to consider
forgiving the hurt...
and that's what happens...
when we grow up
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